It’s no secret that the church and home have the best opportunity to secure faith in the next generation when they have shared goals regarding a child’s discipleship journey. What a powerful movement could be created if we all worked together with the same end in mind.
What if churches and homes across the nation would focus their attention on helping every child who is a follower of Christ attain eight simple goals before they transition out of children’s ministry?
Many churches are becoming more strategic by having leaders of all age groups develop transitional benchmarks and goals together. This is a healthy approach to creating lifelong followers of Christ. In other churches, leaders see the need for goals but don’t know where to begin. Regardless of where your church lands on the process of creating goals or outcomes, the list that follows may help shape perspectives for some and give a starting point for others.
Eight Goals for Kids
After a Child Accepts Christ create an environment for them to become…
Powerful in Prayer
Prayer is communication with God. It is our dream that every child will know to thank God for the good things He brings their way and know that their faith changes things. It would be our goal that kids understand the importance of daily conversations with their Heavenly Father and would see the miraculous happen as a direct result of their prayers. There is power in having a disciplined prayer life. But there is freedom in knowing you can talk to God anytime and anywhere. Both corporate and individual prayer is important. Prayer for personal needs, prayer on behalf of others (intercession), and prayer in the Spirit are all components of becoming powerful in prayer.
Responsive in Worship
Our lives should be lived as an offering of praise unto God. It is because of Him that we are able to have life and do the things that we do. When it comes to corporate worship, encourage children to explore a variety of ways they can express their gratitude to the Lord for His goodness in their lives. Corporate worship is often the bridge that God uses to help pave the way for the Word of God and the message from the Holy Spirit. Help kids understand that how they live their lives is an expression of worship to their Heavenly Father, and the moments where singing and dancing in church allow for collective praise to rise to Heaven.
John declared of Jesus, “He will baptize with the Holy Spirit and with fire.” (Luke 3:16) The goal of Spirit empowerment includes the initial physical evidence of being filled with the Holy Spirit, but more importantly to reveal what the Spirit-empowered life looks like for every believer today. Kids should have a solid biblical understanding of the Holy Spirit and a confidence that He will empower them for daily life. They should know how to recognize the voice of the Holy Spirit and be willing to obey even before they know what the end result will be. Immediate obedience is key.
It’s important that children be able to read the Bible with sufficient understanding for life, have the knowledge of how to engage the text and gather its meaning. They should memorize Scripture, facts about the Bible, and have a basic understanding of the timeline and characters. Biblical fluency builds on top of that with an expectation that the message of the gospel has permeated their hearts and minds to the point where their thoughts, conversations, and actions are actually shaped according to the truths found in the Word of God. In the same way, while people may become literate in a language and get by, language fluency means the culture changes the way the persons thinks and behaves. Our goal is that kids are biblically literate and exhibiting actions consistent with being fluent in the Word of God.
If there’s one thing that American Christians may need the most perspective shift in, it’s the importance of serving. Faith is designed to be lived out in how we serve others. Within the goal of getting kids to serve actively, people should consider serving in the home, serving in the church, and serving in the community. Although serving the home and church are much easier to facilitate (and can be safer) a community-based service project has the potential for the greatest amount of life impact in a child. As people exhibit a life of serving others, it causes faith to grow in incredible ways. A faith that is self-focused becomes ingrown and stagnant.
Bold in Faith
Jesus gave us all a commission to live out—we are to go into all the world. Our world is hurting and in need of an embrace from the Heavenly Father. The children in your ministry are drawing closer to God each and every day and have tasted and seen to know the Lord is Good. Finding ways to help them talk about the goodness of God is critical in helping them become bold in their faith. Help kids learn the skills necessary to open doors for conversations about God, but don’t overcomplicate the process to make it seem out of reach.
If children understand that everything belongs to the Father and that we have been trusted to use it according to what is in His heart, meeting the needs of others becomes second nature. When children have a proper understanding of stewardship, their response to the question of “Should I give to meet this need?” becomes entirely different. They begin to see their resources through the eyes of how Jesus would use them if He were here. God’s heart is to care for the orphan and the widow, that He wants people to hear about a hope for their future, and that He looks after the poor. As kids understand this, they will use what has been entrusted to them to extend the heart of God into those exact places.
Living Like Christ
2 Corinthians 3:18 states “we… are being transformed into his image” [NIV]. This is the essence of spiritual formation. As we abide in Christ, His Spirit becomes our spirit, we desire to obey the instructions of Christ, and we begin to look more like Christ than we look like the world. This goal encompasses the nature of Christ not expressly exhibited through the other seven goals. In particular, it could be defined as being baptized in water, taking Communion, fulfilling the Great Commandment and the Great Commission, and exhibiting the fruit of the Spirit. As we abide in Christ we will bear fruit that remains.
How to make the Eight Goals sticky
The traditional approach churches have taken in discipleship is to teach kids what they need to know and do. While there will always be a need for teaching, there are some additional principles that help faith grow deep in children which should be understood.
The commitment that parents, church leaders, and other Christ-followers must make is to:
Live their lives as an example—make faith contagious (Model)
Encourage the next generation—build a confidence that echoes into the future (Mentor)
Anchor faith in the Word of God—stand courageously on the promises of God (Message)
3Ms of KidMin
In many ways discipleship is a lot like learning to ride a bike. We see someone riding a bike which creates an imprint and desire to be like them. As the new bike rider journeys out on two wheels for the first time, others are there to cheer them on - even when they falter. What allows them to continue riding their bike for years to come is the knowledge and understanding that comes from following the “rules of the road.”
Helping our children reach these eight goals and have a lifelong faith in Christ is similar.
AG Kidmin Core
Many churches use resources to help create environments where faith will grow. Though every curriculum may have the same end goal - lifelong faith - they approach it in difference ways. Below are some of the ministries provided through the Assemblies of God which naturally facilitate one of the 3M’s as a starting point. Download this brochure to learn more. Click the ministry logo to be connected to that resource.
Interested in equipping church leaders and parents with the content surrounding the 8 goals and the 3Ms? Consider bringing one of these nationally known speakers to your event. Each individual can cover the concepts relayed above, but will present their information differently for each audience.
If this is something of interest to you, we’d love to hear about your goals and help create a custom event that can help you achieve your goals.
Discover the principles that started it all. What began as a simple rally cry to help churches shoot toward a common goal is becoming a movement. Hear the insights from Strong Enough to Last that helped a “bus kid” become one the the nations strongest advocates for ministry to children and most effective presenters of the Gospel.
- Great for teacher training, children’s ministry training, and leadership retreats.
God has answered a lot of questions about how faith is transferred in the pages of Scripture. As leaders and parents dive into these principles we find that helping kids have a deep rooted faith is something we can all participate in. These perspectives convey the importance of consistency in the lives of the leaders and parents as well as bring aha moments to light.
- Great for children’s ministry training events, leadership retreats and parenting seminars
As the leader of adult and family ministry, Ryan’s passion for the home begins with helping to create strong and healthy marriages. His message of hope will empower parents and church leaders to begin with the basics as a means to influence the faith of children. Help the adults in your church begin to live these eight goals as a key part of the strategy to disciple children.
- Great for parenting seminars and teacher trainings
Discover how God’s heart can shape the perspectives of parents towards their children. Learning to steward the hearts of children is a different approach than being a good parent. It requires spiritual sensitive and an authentic relationship with Christ. Alycia helps small group leaders and parents begin to understand how to make sure they are raising Godly kids through her practical and masterful lessons.
-Great for teacher trainings and parenting seminars.
Children’s Ministries Director of Leadership Development
Known as one of the most energetic and positive voices in church ministry today, Kelly’s unique presentation style shares powerful insights that will help leaders know how to tie practical children’s ministry skills to reinforce the eight goals within your ministry.
- Great for children’s ministry training events and retreats